Forty Lessons from Turning 40

I recently turned forty. Here are just a few of the many lessons that I have reflected upon and learned along the way:

1. I am responsible for my own life
2. No one cares
3. It’s not too late
4. Don’t take time for granted
5. I am worthy
6. Who cares what they think
7. Ask for what you want
8. Do not make assumptions
9. Actions speak MUCH louder than words
10. Everyone is winging it, in some form or fashion
11. Everything isn’t for everyone
12. The word “friend” has been overused — real friendship requires some sort of reciprocity
13. When motivation leaves, discipline should step in
14. Distraction is both a loud and silent enemy
15. Equal contribution isn’t always necessary, but equal sacrifice is
16. I can’t do everything on my own
17. Professing to have faith and actually living by it are two very different things
18. People will unknowingly project their insecurities onto you
19. It’s okay to disagree; everyone does not need to be convinced of my opinion
20. Happiness is…